February 27, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
Bye Bye Brett
This week Brett Favre announced his retirement ending a 17 year NFL career. As tears welled up in his eyes he expressed his gratitude to the fans and the Green Bay Packers organization for the opportunities they gave him. He admitted he didn’t think he could give 100% to the game anymore.
Brett Favre has been playing NFL football for almost as long as I have been alive.
February 24, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
This has nothing to do with psychology, but...From time to time, I run across some terrific deals on fight gear and apparel on sale. closeout or clearance. I decided to post some of them here in case others might find it to be useful. I don't get any commission on sales or credit for "click-throughs". I do this simply as a service to my friends and others who train and love the sport...and who like a good deal. That - and I got tired of being able to "smell" my training partners' kicks before I see them.
This list really only includes low-cost items, not necessarily good deals on "high-end" stuff. But everyone needs, the "basics" right? It's great when it's affordable. So for what it's worth....
SHORTS
Clearance on Select SPRAWL V-Flex Fight Shorts (Select colors) - $34.50

Comp.01 MMA Fight Shorts from Six Deuce - $39.95 (Free Shipping)
Order two sizes larger than your usual size

Rhino Fight Shorts (Black) $15.00

Fight FX MMA Short - $29.99

GRAY PRIDE FIGHTWEAR GRAPPLING SHORTS - $27.99

Spartan MMA Fight Shorts w/Antimicrobial Coating $29.99

Conflict Fight Gear - MMA Shorts - $34.95

Combat Sports Fight Shorts - $34.99

CageWalk –Black Shorts– Special- No Side Split - $17.50

NHB Gear SideFly Boardshorts - $35

HCK Loose Fit Shorts - $35

APPAREL
Combat Sports Embroidered Visor - $1.95

Everlast USA Long Sleeve Tee - Sale price: $9.99

Everlast Country Pride Brushed Tricot Zip-Up – USA - Sale price: $19.99

FCF Animated Tee - Sale price: $9.99

FCF Double Logo Tee - Sale price: $12.99

Throwdown Victory Tee - $9.99

IFL Short Sleeve Logo Tee - Sale price: $9.99

Throwdown West Coast Tee - $9.99

Throwdown Bas Signature Tee - Sale price: $12.99

HEADGEAR
Kickboxing Open Face Headgear: - $15.00 - $24.99

Titan Competition Headgear - $33.99

GLOVES
Windy Training Gloves - $29.95

Super Soft Training Glove - $14.95

Professional Fight Gloves - $14.99

Everlast MMA Leather Sparring Gloves - Sale price: $39.99

Everlast Country Pride Training Gloves - Sale price: $19.99

Grant Wrist Wrap Boxing Gloves - $20.00

Grant Speed Wraps - $12.50

Wrap Training Glove By Ringside - $24.95

SHINS
Shin Armor - $8.99

Pro-Style Shin-Instep Guard - $19.95

TITLE Vinyl Shin/Instep Guards - $19.99

TITLE MMA Grappling Shin/Instep Guards - Sale price: $39.99

Curved Kicking Pads - $29.95
February 21, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
This football off season, I told you I had a few special tricks up my sleeve. Today, I unveil one of those for you.
Ray’s Sports Ramblings is about to shift into high gear with an in-depth look at the sport of NASCAR. Yes people, NASCAR is a sport. My Friend KK and I (see her blog at www.onlinewithkk.blogspot.com) will be, over the course of the 32 race NASCAR Sprint Cup Series, bringing you
February 19, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
I was wondering if any of you guys watch the show "Wildfire" on ABC family? It comes on Monday nights at 8.
If you don't you should give it a shot. It is a great show. It revolves around horse ...
February 18, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
A Little Ray of Sunshine
By Ray
Wow, what a race!
The 50th running of NASCAR’s Daytona 500 lived up to most of the hype during the week. Unfortunately for me the one thing missing was a dominating Team Hendricks.
Instead Joe Gibbs racing provided a great performance and Penske Racing got the win with driver Ryan Newman. Talk about a bloody shocker.
Now you people listen here…
Hendricks
February 16, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
Positive Psychology in Action

Many people think the goal of psychology is to understand what is abnormal and to "fix" mental problems. Those issues certainly have gotten a lot of attention. But over the past 10-15 years, some psychological researchers have tried to balance the focus of the field. Instead of just studying depression, for example, they have begin to try to understand happiness - what it is and how certain people achieve it.
This relatively new line of inquiry has been called "Positive Psychology." It is not itself a theory or type of therapy, but more of a guiding philosophy. According to the Positive Psychology Center at the University of Pennsylvania:
"Positive Psychology has three central concerns: positive emotions, positive individual traits, and positive institutions. Understanding positive emotions entails the study of contentment with the past, happiness in the present, and hope for the future. Understanding positive individual traits consists of the study of the strengths and virtues, such as the capacity for love and work, courage, compassion, resilience, creativity, curiosity, integrity, self-knowledge, moderation, self-control, and wisdom. Understanding positive institutions entails the study of the strengths that foster better communities, such as justice, responsibility, civility, parenting, nurturance, work ethic, leadership, teamwork, purpose, and tolerance."
Developments in positive psychology have strongly influenced my thinking and work in mental skills training and applied sport psychology with combat sport athletes. I do not search relentlessly for "problems", but I seek to identify strengths and virtues within a fighter that can be used to enhance his or her performance. I may help to teach certain skills and facilitate growth and new learning - I may even offer advice or ideas for consideration - but fundamentally, the athlete must do the work and create the transformation.
Lao Tzu says in the
The Tao: "It is said of a good leader that
when the work is done, the aim fulfilled,
the people will say, "We did this ourselves..”
Many of the greatest advances in applied sport psychology have not come from intensive study of "problem" cases, but from studies seeking to understand winners, success, and expertise. Some combat sport athletes never consider consulting with a sport psychologist because, they say, "there is nothing wrong with me." Remember the discussion of fixed vs growth mindsets? (see previous post). The BEST are always striving to improve, not just to "fix" what may or may not be broken.
Here is a practical exercise you can try: Think about your current game (in fighting, grappling, wrestling, or whatever you do) and identify two specific goals you would like to accomplish in the next three months (feel free to refer to the article on Goal Setting). Next, write down what you consider to be three of your greatest personal strengths. Then, write a plan for how you can use your strengths to help accomplish the goals you have set. Write so that the link between the strength and the goal is clear and direct.
You might also consider exploring some of your own strengths and virtues in more depth. The more you know about yourself, the better you will be as a competitor.
You may want to start by looking at the broad array of FREE tests available to you
HERE.
For more information on Positive Psychology generally, I recommend visiting the Positive Psychology Center by clicking on the image below:
February 12, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
2nd Time is the Charm…or Is It?
One of the issues that will surely be brought up at this years NFL off season owner’s meeting is the issue of “icing the kicker.” The basic concept is that right before a team was to kick a field goal, the head coach would call a time out. Usually it happened so that a kicker had to in fact kick the ball twice. Calling the time out just before the snap, yet
February 6, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
Perfectionists Deserve a Break…
by Dr. Randy Borum

“Don’t be such a perfectionist!” Do you get tired of hearing this from coaches and teammates? Well, you may in luck. Researchers have been learning that perfectionism has a positive side too.
Over the years, research has produced some seemingly contradictory findings on perfectionism’s role in performance. While some studies show perfectionism to be a central quality of elite athletes like Olympic champions, other studies have found that perfectionism undermines athletic performance.
Attempting to understand these different results, researchers have found that perfectionism has at least two different parts (or facets) – each has somewhat different effects on performance. One facet is a positive striving for perfection, which is shown in “having high personal standards, setting exacting standards for one's performance, and striving for excellence” (Stoll, Lau, & Stoeber, In Press). The other facet has been called “self critical perfectionism,” which involves “critical self-evaluations of one's performance, concern over mistakes, and feelings of discrepancy between expectations and results” (Stoll, Lau, & Stoeber, In Press).
Studies have found that those who have a strong positive striving for perfection have a more positive mood, more endurance, better performance, less anxiety, and more confidence in competitive endeavors. But – and here’s the catch – those benefits can fizzle out for those who also possess a high degree of self critical perfectionism. That self-criticality has been linked to depression, stress, increased competitive anxiety, less confidence during competition, decreased performance, and burnout.
For the perfectionistic combat sport athlete, these findings suggest that you can keep your lofty standards, but consider cutting yourself a break when you err or fall short. If you tend toward perfectionism, work with it, not against it. Learn to control the stream of negative shouts that flow from your inner critic. Learn to learn from your mistakes, not to react to them. In competition, responding to your own mistakes with frustration, worry or anger will only distract you and undermine your confidence. Have cue words ready to quickly re-focus yourself on the strength – not the limitations – of your performance and on moving forward, not looking back. There will be plenty of time later to reflect, analyze and learn about what you could have done differently. But when someone is punching you in the face or bending your joints in unintended direction – that’s probably not the best time.
For those interested in reading more research on perfectionism and sport performance, here are some references:
M.H. Anshel and H. Mansouri, Influences of perfectionism on motor performance, affect, and causal attributions in response to critical information feedback, Journal of Sport Behavior 28 (2005), pp. 99–124.
D.M. Dunkley, D.C. Zuroff and K.R. Blankstein, Self-critical perfectionism and daily affect: Dispositional and situational influences on stress and coping, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 84 (2003), pp. 234–252.
J.G.H. Dunn, J.K. Gotwals and J.C. Dunn, An examination of the domain specificity of perfectionism among intercollegiate student-athletes, Personality and Individual Differences 38 (2005), pp. 1439–1448.
M.W. Enns and B.J. Cox, The nature and assessment of perfectionism: A critical analysis. In: G.L. Flett and P.L. Hewitt, Editors, Perfectionism: Theory, research, and treatment, American Psychological Association, Washington, DC (2002), pp. 33–62.
A.J. Elliot and D.E. Conroy, Beyond the dichotomous model of achievement goals in sport and exercise psychology, Sport and Exercise Psychology Review 1 (2005), pp. 17–25.
G.L. Flett and P.L. Hewitt, The perils of perfectionism in sports and exercise, Current Directions in Psychological Science 14 (2005), pp. 14–18.
G.L. Flett and P.L. Hewitt, Perfectionism and maladjustment: An overview of theoretical, definitional, and treatment issues. In: G.L. Flett and P.L. Hewitt, Editors, Perfectionism: Theory, research, and treatment, American Psychological Association, Washington, DC (2002), pp. 5–13.
Hall, H. K. (2006). Perfectionism: A hallmark quality of world class performers, or a psychological impediment to athletic development?. In D. Hackfort, & G. Tenenbaum (Eds.), Essential processes for attaining peak performance (Vol. 1, pp. 178–211). Oxford, UK: Meyer & Meyer.
J. Stoeber and K. Otto, Positive conceptions of perfectionism: Approaches, evidence, challenges, Personality and Social Psychology Review 10 (2006), pp. 295–319.
Stoeber, J., Stoll, O., Pescheck, E., & Otto, K. (in press). Perfectionism and achievement goals in athletes: Relations with approach and avoidance orientations in mastery and performance goals. Psychology of Sport and Exercise.
Stoll, O., Lau, A. & Stoeber, J. (In Press). Perfectionism and performance in a new basketball training task: Does striving for perfection enhance or undermine performance?
Psychology of Sport and Exercise.
February 4, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
The Super Bowl Editon
This week for me one of those wonderful times in a sports fans lifetime where more than one particular event just absolutely drives us bonkers. That’s why today Ray’s Rants is about several things. ENJOY!
Bill Bellicheck be on notice
I totally hate you! You don’t leave a game early because you can’t take the pain. If your quarterback can stand there and take it, so can
February 4, 2008 | Filed Under Uncategorized | Comments Off
Giants Get The Win
Seems like only yesterday, Head Coach Tom Coughlin’s job was on the line, his players hated him, his organization was sick of him, and most fans had long since lost respect for him. Yet, here he is today on top of the world.
Sunday night, the Super Bowl victor was decided by 3 points. For the New York Giants, the feeling of sheer elation will carry on for years, for the
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